I had a chance to meet one of my colleagues for lunch and reflect on the past month coaching sessions. He seemed very confident and meet all his goals. He referred to as being able to recall and apply his own skills at a consciously competent level. I was more on trying to understand how you wake up your dormant coaching skills and was puzzled to understand that even with a life changing attitude you may end up not using your skills if you are not aware of that need. So I wondered what kid of cues can we elect and elicit so you coaching g heart is there all the time? What are the real outstanding elements that reinforce the habit of coaching at all times? Finding coachable moments and become smart about finding those is for sure a discipline. The natural ability is built on practice and the key word is… Listen.